Dreamin' Big: The American Way
In America, we do
things big. We drive the biggest trucks. We buy
the biggest TV's. In America, we go big or go home. In the
land of abnormal enormity, it's only natural we dream big too. The American
dream is often portrayed as the rags to riches story of an individual who comes
from nothing and finds success in wealth. However, we all have different
backgrounds, aspirations, and therefore, different dreams. What is the American
dream?
The American dream is
well expressed in Thomas Jefferson's 3rd natural right: the pursuit of
happiness. Happiness is achieved when an individual feels free, and safe, and
able to achieve his or her maximum potential. The individual must be free so
they can live by their own accord and live by the means which they find
fulfillment. The individual must feel safe to allow fear and anxiety to
dissipate. Finally, the individual must be able to live up to their maximum
potential which means he or she live in an environment where equal opportunity
is present for all. I have ambition slowly eating away at my core; my dream is
to be satisfied with myself.
I need to be safe to
achieve my American dream. A world where we constantly need to look over our
shoulders does not promote free thought. An environment where we smile to each
other’s faces but distrust one another behind the façade does not promote free thought.
A place where we’re persecuted for our religious beliefs, ethnicity, sexual orientation,
or nationality does not allow us to reach our potential. I need the free
head-space to solve the challenges I face.
To fulfill my ambition, I
need my freedom. I can’t reshape the world if I’m tied down. I can’t advance
myself while advancing the agenda of a master. To pursue my goals, I need the
freedom to be my own master.
I need to live up to my
full potential to fulfill my dream. The prerequisites of freedom and safety
must be met, but my dream stems from my own character because my American dream
is creating the best version of myself.
Yes. I want my typical
suburban house in a nice town (complete with the white picket fence).
Yes. I want the typical
perfect family like in the TV shows.
Yes. I want a paycheck
where I’ll never have to worry about money in my life.
But none of that
perfection matters if the only thing which follows me everywhere is imperfect:
myself. So I’m dedicated to projecting the best version of myself. I’m willing
to work for it every day. Perfection is a lot to ask for, perfection is difficult,
but perfection is perfection. I don’t
ask for a world to be perfect. I ask for the chance to help a world find
perfection.
My dream is having the
security and freedom to better myself, so I may help others and better the
world I live in. Am I dreaming big? Maybe. But goddamn it, I’m American and GO
BIG OR GO HOME!
Haha. This was a great post, Andrew, and I wish more people had seen it.
ReplyDeleteSeriously. I love Costco.
And now really seriously . . . we do need freedom to pursue dreams, and we need freedom to have the courage to have dreams.
Great post. Costco, trucks, even the food we eat is larger than some refer to as normal. In agreement with what you concluded your blog with, the American dream is about being financially stable, having a family, and having the ability to buy a house. But it all starts with you and the comfort of your own skin. We attend a four year to grow, academically and personally. Without this opportunity, we fall short in this day and age as education is a huge part of American success. The American Dream starts with yourself and building on the hope that you & I will be the most perfect version of ourselves.
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